Wednesday, October 19, 2016

October Thoughts

Ram Dass Quotes

I think in relationships, you create an environment with your own work on yourself, which you offer to another human being to use to grow in the way they need to grow. You keep working – you become the soil – moist and soft and receptive so the person can grow the way they need to grow, because how do you know how they should grow?
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From the soul’s point of view, you come to appreciate that each one of us is living out his or her own karma. We interact together, and those interactions are the grist for each other’s mill of awakening. From a personality point of view, you develop judgment, but from the soul’s point of view, you develop appreciation. This shift from judging to appreciating — to appreciating yourself and what your karmic predicament is, and who other beings are with their own karma — brings everything into a simple loving awareness.

To be free means to open your heart and your being into the fullness of who you are, because only when you are resting in the place of unity can you truly honor and appreciate others and the incredible diversity of the universe.”

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How to Stop Beating Yourself Up
by Bodhipaksa, Wildmind.org

Mindfulness creates a sacred pause in which we can learn to accept difficult feelings with equanimity, to allow kinder attitudes toward ourselves to emerge, and to put our own suffering in perspective, recognizing that it’s simply a part of the human condition, and not something unique to us.

Mindfulness is not something that we can only do in meditation. It’s a quality of attentiveness to whatever is arising, whether we’re working, walking, talking with a friend, showering, reading, or driving.

Mindfulness is a quality of attention that we can, in principle, bring in to any moment of our lives. We don’t need to be perfectly mindful — let’s take away that particular excuse for beating ourselves up. But there are certain critical moments in the unfolding of our thoughts, feelings, and actions where a little mindful attention can make the difference between creating misery for ourselves and creating space, acceptance, and kindness.”

How to Stop Beating Yourself Up (on youtube – 30 min) https://youtu.be/WjTmMmk46Ms
A step-by-step guide to cultivating self-compassion, from a presentation Bodhipaksa recorded for En*theos Academy. Check out Wildmind's online meditation courses at http://wildmind.org/events
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Actualized (Are you? Maybe want to be?)
Dozens of free videos offer Leo Gura's insights into the world of being.
Some topic titles:
Low Quality vs High Quality Consciousness (How to measure your level of consciousness)
The 64 Most Fascinating Questions A Human Can Ask
Guided Meditation - The Next Level Of Meditation 
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Namaste ૐ 

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

Flourish 

The opportunity to flourish in your life is now. This moment. Why put off or delay it?
What is wanting to arise and be present now?

Life is meant to be lived with Purpose, Love, and Joy....
with connection, authenticity, and creative curiosity.

It starts with acknowledging peace within. To find a stillness there, to find an alignment there that allows a moving into your soul's calling.
It then requires connection. Intimate, mindful contact. It requires being vulnerable, but from a place of open heart trusting. An allowing yourself to know another and to be known my them.

Then move. Let the movement be with Grace, Ease, and Elegance.
This is the G.E.E. factor. Learn to cultivate the GEE factor in your life.

richard hammer
10-17-16
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Marin Seligman, positive psychologist, published a book in 2011 titled FLOURISH.  He identifies five essential elements to well-being called the PERMA Model, a well-being theory.

1. Positive Emotion (P)

For us to experience well-being, we need positive emotion in our lives. Any positive emotion such as peace, gratitude, satisfaction, pleasure, inspiration, hope, curiosity, or love falls into this category – and the message is that it's really important to enjoy yourself in the here and now, just as long as the other elements of PERMA are in place.

2. Engagement (E)

When we're truly engaged in a situation, task, or project, we experience a state of flow: time seems to stop, we lose our sense of self, and we concentrate intensely on the present.
This feels really good! The more we experience this type of engagement, the more likely we are to experience well-being.

3. Positive Relationships (R)

As humans, we are "social beings," and good relationships are core to our well-being. Time and again, we see that people who have meaningful, positive relationships with others are happier than those who do not. Relationships really do matter!

4. Meaning (M)

Meaning comes from serving a cause bigger than ourselves. Whether this is a specific deity or religion, or a cause that helps humanity in some way, we all need meaning in our lives to have a sense of well-being.

5. Accomplishment/Achievement (A)

Many of us strive to better ourselves in some way, whether we're seeking to master a skill, achieve a valuable goal, or win in some competitive event. As such, accomplishment is another important thing that contributes to our ability to flourish.

By focusing on all five of these elements, we can flourish in life, and find the happiness we want. As such, PERMA gives us the starting point for living a great life!