Flourish
The opportunity to
flourish in your life is now. This moment. Why put off or delay it?
What is wanting to arise
and be present now?
Life is meant to be lived
with Purpose, Love, and Joy....
with connection,
authenticity, and creative curiosity.
It then requires
connection. Intimate, mindful contact. It requires being vulnerable,
but from a place of open heart trusting. An allowing yourself to know
another and to be known my them.
Then move. Let the
movement be with Grace, Ease, and Elegance.
This is the G.E.E. factor.
Learn to cultivate the GEE factor in your life.
richard
hammer
10-17-16
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Marin Seligman, positive psychologist, published a book in 2011 titled FLOURISH. He identifies five essential elements to well-being called the PERMA Model, a well-being theory.
1. Positive Emotion (P)
For us to
experience well-being, we need positive emotion in our lives. Any
positive emotion such as peace, gratitude, satisfaction, pleasure,
inspiration, hope, curiosity, or love falls into this category –
and the message is that it's really important to enjoy yourself in
the here and now, just as long as the other elements of PERMA are in
place.
2. Engagement (E)
When
we're truly engaged in a situation, task, or project, we experience a
state of flow:
time seems to stop, we lose our sense of self, and we concentrate
intensely on the present.
This feels
really good! The more we experience this type of engagement, the more
likely we are to experience well-being.
3. Positive Relationships (R)
As humans, we
are "social beings," and good relationships are core to our
well-being. Time and again, we see that people who have meaningful,
positive relationships with others are happier than those who do not.
Relationships really do matter!
4. Meaning (M)
Meaning comes
from serving a cause bigger than ourselves. Whether this is a
specific deity or religion, or a cause that helps humanity in some
way, we all need meaning in our lives to have a sense of well-being.
5. Accomplishment/Achievement (A)
Many of us
strive to better ourselves in some way, whether we're seeking to
master a skill, achieve a valuable goal, or win in some competitive
event. As such, accomplishment is another important thing that
contributes to our ability to flourish.
By focusing on
all five of these elements, we can flourish in life, and find the
happiness we want. As such, PERMA gives us the starting point for
living a great life!
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